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DOs & DON'Ts
Most Requested Songs Of All-Time
WEDDINGS, by the numbers
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Wedding Planning Do's & Don'ts
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THE DON'Ts
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Don't procrastinate in your planning - hire all of your wedding professionals as soon as the date is set. The best wedding vendors are scooped up 1-2 years in advance.
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Don't hire your wedding professionals until you have a working budget. Know what you can afford and if you are pressed for money, budget more for the items that are going to matter the most and less for the non essential "frills".
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Don't: hire professionals just because they're the cheapest - Like everything in life, you get what you pay for. Your wedding is one of the most important days in your lives, make sure that the memories you have will be good ones.
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Don't: hire the first professional you meet - check out a minimum of 3 for a proper comparison.
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Don't: be afraid to ask questions. If you are unsure of something "ask". A lot of times wedding professionals assume that because they know what to expect at a wedding, that the bride and groom know as well. If you are unsure or uncomfortable with any part of your wedding plans, don' t wait until it's too late to ask questions.
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Don't: assume anything! - get everything in writing. CONTRACT - CONTRACT - CONTRACT.
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Don't: make decisions without consulting your mate - it's his or her wedding too.
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Don't: invite everyone you've ever known. - weddings are expensive.
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Don't: worry about everyone else's advise - its YOUR wedding.
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THE DOs
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Do give yourself plenty of time to plan.
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Do outline a realistic budget and timetable. These are mandatory to keep you on track.
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Do organize all of the pieces of the wedding. A binder which includes separate tabs for wedding professionals, appointments, contracts, gown/dress swatches, etc. is a great investment.
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Do prepare and follow a timetable of events, including appointments, deposits & payments, review contract terms, fittings, etc..
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Do coordinate every aspect of the wedding day. To ensure your wedding day is truly "your special day" every item must be coordinated. Do not leave important decisions to someone else. This is your day and you are in control.
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Do hire professionals that you are comfortable with. If you are not comfortable speaking with someone, or if it seems like your questions or inquiries are just brushed off, then it would probably be a good idea to seek out someone else.
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Do take breaks during planning. If you begin to get stressed or irritated, take a break, step back and work on something else for a while. Often times decisions made under extreme stress are later regretted.
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and finally,
Do enjoy yourself. This will be one of the most memorable times in your lives. Be sure to spend plenty of time with your friends, family and most importantly, your fiancé.
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Mobile Beat Magazine's Top 200
Most Requested Songs Of All-Time
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Mobile Beat − a DJ industry-related magazine has been compiling surveys since 1992 on the most popular songs people dance to at special events (i.e.: wedding receptions, corporate functions, etc.) by asking mobile DJs nationwide to submit the top 25 songs for which they get requests. The result was The Top 200 Most Requested Songs of All-time, published in 1992.
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The following is the most recent Top 200, released in 2006.
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Top 20 Background Music
- Kenny G.
- Harry Connick, Jr.
- Frank Sinatra
- David Sanborn
- Yanni
- Richard Clayderman
- George Benson
- George Winston
- Henry Mancini
- Tom Scott
- Lee Ritenour
- Star Getz
- Linda Ronstadt w/ Nelson Riddle
- Enya
- Earl Klugh
- David Benoit
- Grover Washington, Jr.
- Larry Carlton
- Luther Vandross
- Natalie Cole
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Top 25 Bridal Dance Songs
- Wonderful Tonight - Eric Clapton
- Amazed - Lonestar
- Unchained Melody - Righteous Brothers
- What A Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
- Can't Help Falling In Love - Elvis Presley
- The Way You Look Tonight - Frank Sinatra
- Breathe - Faith Hill
- Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
- I Don't Want To Miss A Thing - Aerosmith
- At Last - Etta James
- How Do I Live - Trisha Yearwood
- I Do (Cherish You) - 98 Degrees
- Have I Told You Lately - Rod Stewart
- The Wind Beneath My Wings - Bette Midler
- (Everything I Do) I Do It For You - Bryan Adams
- That's Amore - Dean Martin
- When A Man Loves A Woman - Percy Sledge
- Open Arms - Journey
- From This Moment On - Shania Twain & Bryan White
- Thank You - Dido
- In Your Eyes - Peter Gabriel
- Hero - Enrique Iglesias
- You're The Inspiration - Chicago
- Just The Way You Are - Billy Joel
- I Could Not Ask For More - Edwin McCain
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Top 25 Ballads
- Unchained Melody - Righteous Brothers
- Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
- Wonderful Tonight - Eric Clapton
- I Can't Help Falling In Love - Elvis Presley
- Keeper Of The Stars - Tracy Byrd
- Crazy - Patsy Cline
- Everything I Do - Bryan Adams
- One Sweet Day - Mariah Carey
- I Swear - J. M. Montgomery
- I'll Make Love To You - Boyz II Men
- Nobody Knows - Tony Rich Project
- After The Loving - Engelbert Humperdinck
- Have I Told You Lately - Van Morrison
- Killing Me Softly - Fugees
- Always - Atlantic Starr
- Beautiful In My Eyes - Joshua Kadison
- End Of The Road - Boyz II Men
- I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston
- Lady In Red - Chris DeBurgh
- Sea Of Love - Honeydrippers
- Always and Forever - Heatwave
- Could I Have This Dance - Anne Murray
- Hero - Mariah Carey
- Power Of Love - Celine Dion
- Your Love Amazes Me - John Berry
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Top 25 Party Songs
- Macarena - Los Del Rio
- YMCA - Village People
- Old Time Rock & Roll - Bob Seger
- Shout - Otis Day & The Nights
- Hot Hot Hot - Buster Poindexter
- Shout - Otis Day & Nights
- Mony Mony - Billy Idol
- C'mon & Ride It (The Train) - Quad City DJs
- You Shook Me All Night Long - AC/DC
- Chicken Dance - Various
- The Twist - Chubby Checker
- Hokey Pokey - Ray Anthony
- Love Shack - B-52's
- Celebration - Kool & The Gang
- Whoomp! There It Is - Tag Team
- This Is How We Do It - Montell Jordan
- Tootsie Roll - 69 Boyz
- Swing The Mood - Jive Bunny & Mixmasters
- Twist and Shout - Beatles
- Brown Eyed Girl - Van Morrison
- Strokin' - Clarence Carter
- Gonna Make You Sweat - C+C Music Factory
- La Bamba - Los Lobos
- Hip Hop Hooray - Naughty By Nature
- DA Butt - EU
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Top 25 Country
- Boot Scootin' Boogie - Brooks & Dunn
- Friends In Low Places - Garth Brooks
- Any Man Of Mine - Shania Twain
- Achy Breaky Heart - Billy Ray Cyrus
- Baby Likes To Rock It - Tractors
- Chattahoochee - Alan Jackson
- I Swear - J.M. Montgomery
- Watermelon Crawl - Tracy Byrd
- Keeper Of The Stars - Tracy Byrd
- Crazy - Patsy Cline
- I Cross My Heart - George Strait
- Mountain Music - Alabama
- My Maria - Brooks & Dunn
- I Love The Way You Love Me - J. M. Montgomery
- Sold - J. M. Montgomery
- I Like It! I Love It! - Tim McGraw
- The Dance - Garth Brooks
- Blue - LeAnn Rimes
- Daddy's Money - Ricochet
- Down At The Twist and Shout - Mary Chapin Carpenter
- TROUBLE - Travis Tritt
- All My Rowdy Friends - Hank Williams, Jr.
- Born To Boogie - Hank Williams, Jr.
- Cotton Eyed Joe - Various
- Could I Have This Dance - Anne Murray
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Top 25 Disco/Dance
- YMCA - Village People
- Stayin' Alive - Bee Gees
- Celebration - Kool & the Gang
- Play That Funky Music - Wild Cherry
- Get Down Tonight - KC & Sunshine Band
- I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor
- We Are Family - Sister Sledge
- Macarena - Los Del Rio
- Funkytown - Lipps, Inc.
- That's The Way I Like It - KC & Sunshine Band
- Brick House - Commodores
- Gonna Make You Sweat - C+C Music Factory
- Electric Boogie - Marcia Griffiths
- Disco Inferno - Tramps
- Born To Be Alive - Patrick Hernandez
- Le Freak - Chic
- California Love - 2Pac
- Super Freak - Rick James
- Last Dance - Donna Summer
- Be My Lover - La Bouche
- Macho Man - Village People
- It's Raining Men - Weather Girls
- So Many Men - Miguel Brown
- December 1963 - Four Seasons
- Night Fever - Bee Gees
- Dancing Queen - ABBA
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Top 25 Classic Rock/Alternative
- Ironic - Alanis Morissette
- Lump - Presidents Of The U.S.A.
- I Melt With You - Modern English
- Come Out And Play - Offspring
- Love Shack - B-52's
- You Oughtta Know - Alanis Morissette
- Smells Like Teen Spirit - Nirvana
- Bizarre Love Triangle - New Order
- Blister In The Sun - Violent Femmes
- What I Like About You - Romantics
- All I Wanna Do - Sheryl Crow
- Only Wanna Be With You - Hootie & Blowfish
- Two Princes - Spin Doctors
- Ants Marching - Dave Matthews Band
- You Shook Me All Night Long - AC/DC
- When I Come Around - Green Day
- Tainted Love - Soft Cell
- 1979 - Smashing Pumpkins
- (It's The End of The World) I Feel Fine - R.E.M.
- Peaches - Presidents Of The USA
- Machine Head - Bush
- Closer - Nine Inch Nails
- Wonderwall - Oasis
- Mr. Jones - Counting Crows
- I'll Be There For You - Rembrandts
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Father/Daughter Dance Suggestions
- Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
- Blessed - Elton John
- Butterfly Kisses - Bob Carlisle
- Daddy's Girl - Peter Cetera
- Daddy's Hands - Holly Dunn
- Daddy's Little Girl - Al Martino
- Daddy's Little Girl - Mills Brothers
- Have I Told You Lately - Van Morrison
- Have I Told You Lately - Rod Stewart
- Hero - Mariah Carey
- I Wish You Love - Natalie Cole
- In My Life - The Beatles
- In My Life - Bette Midler
- Isn't She Lovely - Stevie Wonder
- My Funny Valentine - Frank Sinatra
- My Girl - The Temptations
- She's Leaving Home - The Beatles
- Sunrise Sunset - Fiddler On The Roof
- Thank Heaven for Little Girls - Maurice Chevalier
- Through the Years - Kenny Rogers
- Times Of Your Life - Paul Anka
- Turn Around - Harry Belafonte
- Unforgettable - Natalie Cole
- What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
- Where Have All The Children Gone - John Anderson
- Wind Beneath My Wings - Bette Midler
- (You Are My) Special Angel - Bobby Helms
- You Are The Sunshine of My Life - Stevie Wonder
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Mother/Son Dance Suggestions
- Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
- Blessed - Elton John
- Forever In Love - Kenny G
- Have I Told You Lately - Van Morrison
- I Get A Kick Out Of You - Frank Sinatra
- I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston
- In My Life - The Beatles
- Lean On Me - Bill Withers
- Memory - Barbara Streisand
- Sonny Boy - Al Jolson
- Stand By Me - Ben E. King
- Summer Wind - Frank Sinatra
- Sunrise, Sunset - Fiddler On The Roof
- Thanks Again - Ricky Scaggs
- The Way You Look Tonight - Frank Sinatra
- Through The Years - Kenny Rogers
- Times Of Your Life - Paul Anka
- Unforgettable - Natalie Cole
- What A Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
- Wind Beneath My Wings - Bette Midler
- You've Got A Friend - James Taylor
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Parents Dance Suggestions
- Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
- Blessed - Elton John
- Have I Told You Lately - Van Morrison
- I Am Your Child - Barry Manilow
- I Wish You Love - Frank Sinatra
- In My Life - The Beatles
- Oh Mother - Jermaine Jackson
- Sunrise, Sunset - Fiddler On The Roof
- The Things We've Handed Down - Marc Cohn
- Through The Years - Kenny Rogers
- What A Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
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Bridal Party Dance Suggestions
- Anytime You Need A Friend - Mariah Carey
- Friends - Elton John
- Friends In Low Places - Garth Brooks
- Shower The People - James Taylor
- That's What Friends Are For - Dionne Warwick
- We Are Family - Sister Sledge
- Ya Gotta Have Friends - Bette Midler
- You Got A Friend In Me - Randy Newman w/ Lyle Lovett
- You Got A Friend In Me - Toy Story 2 (swing version)
- You're My Best Friend - Queen
- You've Got A Friend - James Taylor
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Bouquet Toss Song Suggestions
- California Girls - David Lee Roth
- Chapel Of Love - The Dixie Cups
- Girls Just Wanna Have Fun - Cyndi Lauper
- I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor
- Ladies Night - Kool & The Gang
- Man! I Feel Like A Woman - Shania Twain
- Respect - Aretha Franklin
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Garter Toss Song Suggestions
- Another One Bites The Dust - Queen
- Bad To The Bone - George Thorogood
- Danger Zone - Kenny Loggins
- ESPN Jock Jams ("Let's Get Ready To Rumble!")
- Macho Man - Village People
- Oh Yeah - Yello
- The Stripper - David Rose Orchestra
- Theme From 'Mission Impossible'
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Last Dance Suggestions
- Goodnight My Love - Los Lobos
- Goodnight Sweetheart - The Spaniels
- It's The Last Dance - Frank Sinatra
- (I've Had) Time Of My Life - Jennifer Warnes and Bill Medley
- Last Dance - Donna Summer
- Love & Marriage - Frank Sinatra
- Na Na Hey Hey Kiss Him Goodbye - Steam
- So Long-Farewell-Goodbye - Big Bad Voodoo Daddy
- Thank You - Dido
- Thank You - Natalie Merchant
- Time To Say Goodbye - Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
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WEDDINGS, by the numbers
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$35,000 − average total investment on a wedding in the year 2005
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$500-1000 − average cost of hiring a professional reception coordinator
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$400 − average cost for just the RENTAL of professional DJ equipment (no DJ or music library included)
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$500-1000 − average cost of hiring an experienced professional Master of Ceremonies by himself/herself (no music experience)
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$175 − average cost to hire professional sound & lighting contractors to set up the equipment and make sure it works
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80% − the average amount of responsibility that the entertainer has in making your reception successful
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24 − average number of hours a full-time DJ/entertainer will work to research, prepare and perform at your event
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18% − typical gratuity you will invest in on top of the price for the meal
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$7.50 − average investment per person for just the veggie platter (broccoli sticks, carrots, cauliflower, Ranch dressing). At $7.50 per guest x 200 guests = $1500 you will invest on just the veggie platter, or 8% of the budget!
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5 hours in a typical wedding reception, the number of hours you will have to create wonderful memories that last forever
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2 people celebrating their special union of love in front of their family and friends
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#1 fear in America is public speaking (I am not afraid!)
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1 year or more usually taken to put together and plan your special day
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After the Vows..
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72% of all brides surveyed said they would have spent more time choosing their reception entertainment.
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Almost 100% said they would have spent more of their budget on the entertainment.
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During wedding planning, brides said their highest priority is their attire, followed by the reception site and caterer − reception entertainment is among the least of their priorities.
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Yet, within one week after their reception, 78% said they would have made the entertainment their highest priority.
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When asked, 81% of guests said what they remember most about a wedding is the entertainment.
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65% of all couples that chose a band to entertain at their wedding said, if they had it to do over again, would have chosen a disc jockey.
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Entertainment is 5% of your Wedding Budget, but TWICE as many guests will remember the entertainment more than anything else.
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Amount Budgeted
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Percentage Remembered
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Reception Hall & Catering 37%
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Reception Hall & Catering 8%
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Wedding Rings 23%
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Flowers 16%
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Bridal Attire 10%
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Photo & Video 9%
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Gown 6%
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Gown 18%
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Entertainment 5%
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Entertainment 38%
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"The entertainment you choose for your wedding is responsible for 80% of the event's success
and the memories you will have for the rest of your life," writes Martha Stewart
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"Don't just hire the cheapest companies! Insist on references and take the time to
call other brides to learn from their experiences. Every year I get complaints from consumers angry
over poor services after they hired the "cheapest" company," writes Ken Vander Meeden, reporter,
Holland (MI) Sentinel
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